Dementia
Are you worried about your memory and/or thinking skills?
Everyone experiences changes in their memory or thinking skills at different times in life. We will each respond differently to this, at times we may feel frustrated, worried about what is happening, or feel less confident. These are all normal feelings to experience.
Below are some common examples:
- Misplacing items around the house (things like your keys or glasses)
- Forgetting people’s names
- Getting lost in familiar places or on familiar journeys
- Forgetting recent events or day to day experiences
- Forgetting important dates (such as birthdays or anniversaries) or appointments
- Difficulty following or starting a conversation
Sometimes we may notice changes in our thinking skills including:
- Our ability to focus or concentrate on what we are doing at the time
- Solve problems and plan and organise the things that we need to
- Find the words for what we want to say and hear and understand the things that people say to us
- Judge space and distance and coordinate ourselves in relation to this information
It can be normal to have certain changes in thinking and memory as we get older or if we are going through life changes and are coping with stress. But if these issues are happening more often or for longer periods of time it may be helpful to talk to someone you trust and also think about linking with your GP as they may be a medical explanation for this. Such as anaemia, thyroid issues, menopause, depression or other issues such as dementia or stroke.
Your GP will be able to carry out some initial investigations including:
- physical health examination
- blood tests
- a basic memory screening test
- possible other investigations including a urine test, chest x-ray or head scan
- If your GP is unable to find a physical or other cause for your memory symptoms and your score on the memory screening test is lower than expected, they will decide whether to refer you as appropriate to the Memory Clinic, Older Peoples Mental Health Team, Neurology Service, or Medicine-for-the-Elderly Team for a more comprehensive assessment to help find out the cause.
- People in Neath Port Talbot can refer directly o the Community Memory Support Team ( for those over 65, with no diagnosis, and those with changes to memory/ cognitive functions.
Below are some helpful tips to help manage when living with memory and thinking problems.
+ Keep a regular routine
By having the same or similar routines each day it will help make it easier to remember what will happen throughout the day. Make sure you’re including things you enjoy in your routine, such as getting out to see friends or going to your favourite place for a walk so you don’t get bored.
+ Put things in their place
If you struggle to remember where you’ve put things (like keys, glasses, phone etc.), create places where you will keep certain things and always put them back in that place when you have finished using them. Make the places obvious and close to the area in your home where you would use that item.
+ Organisation
Keep the layout of your home familiar, that way you will more easily know where things are. You might want to label cupboards and drawers so you can easily see what is inside them and try to declutter or remove any unnecessary items.
+ Do one thing at a time
Try to focus on one task at a time and finish it before you start something else. Break tasks down into smaller steps if you need to. Try to minimize destructions for example try not to have a radio or TV on in the background when you are concentrating on the task.
+ Using memory aids
- Using a Diary or Calendar – Keep it somewhere, where you will see it regularly, on your fridge for example. Cross off tasks as you complete them so you know what still needs to be done and you can cross off the day, before you go to bed so you know the date when you wake up the next day.
- Keep a Daily Journal – writing a few sentences about what you have done. Adding a picture or keepsake from your day can also help to remind you and give you something to talk about with others.
- Using Sticky Notes – If there are certain things you need to remember you could add sticky notes around the house to remind you, for example, putting a sticky note saying ‘return parcel’ near the door so you don’t forget to take it to the post office, or a note on the freezer to take something out to defrost. If it is a one-time task, it’s important to throw away the sticky note once you’ve completed it, so you don’t complete it again!
- Permanent Reminders – These are permanent notes you can place around the house for those things you may regularly forget. For example, you may have an A4 piece of paper stuck to the front door saying ‘have you got your keys, phone & purse/wallet?’. If there is something you are regularly forgetting this may be a good way to remind yourself, place the note in a place you will easily see.
- Keeping Lists – Shopping for groceries can be made easier if you have a list of things you need. When you run out of something, add it to your list straight away. A friend or family member may be able to help you organize your list before you go to the shop. Cross off each item as you place it in your basket so you can keep track of what you still need to get.
- Medication Reminder Box (dosette box) – There is a small box that your Pharmacist can prepare for you, which has different compartments for each day of the week and usually morning or afternoon compartments. You can then easily see if you have taken your medication for that day to minimise the risk of taking them twice or not at all.
- Emergency Contacts – It can be helpful to have a list of emergency/important contact numbers all in the same place, it is best to keep this by the phone – You may want to include your GP’s surgery, family members or friends, emergency services, utility companies, etc.
- Smart devices – such as Amazon Echo (Alexa), and Google Home which you can ask questions and get immediate answers, they can also remind you of things throughout the day. It can take time to get used to electronic devices and not everyone may want to use them. You can ask a friend or a family member to help you with it.
- The Alzheimer’s society have a really helpful handbook that offers lots more information and tips to help manage difficulties with memory. View here.
Are you supporting someone living with dementia?
When supporting someone living with dementia it is important for you to also think of your own wellbeing needs. As you know, it can be challenging to cope with the changes you may see in the person you are supporting. The Alzheimer’s Society website can offer lots of advice and information on caring for someone with dementia.
Visit the ‘Dementia Hwb’ in the Swansea Quadrant Shopping centre (entrance by the bus station) or the Aberafan Shopping Centre, as well as many Mobile Hwb locations. The Dementia Hwb is staffed by volunteers who can provide you with local support and information to help meet your and your loved one’s needs.
Here is list of groups based in and around Swansea that are aimed at people with dementia and their loved ones.
There is more information about caring on our SortedSupported Carers page.
Local Support Services
Alzheimer’s Society
If you need dementia support, personalised information, support and advice, call on 0333 150 3456.
Musical Memories Choir
Musical Memories Choir is choir with a purpose! Started in 2014 we were born out of a wish to enable people living with dementia and carers, to come together and experience both the many benefits of singing and the friendship of others living through similar experiences.
SCVS – Dementia Carer Project
The Swansea Dementia and Carer Project supports people living with Dementia and their Carers throughout Swansea.
The overall aim of the project is to provide people living with dementia and their carers with an opportunity to engage socially in the community, access community resources with the support of a volunteer, reduce isolation for the person living with dementia and carers and offer a listening ear to those we support.
Swansea Dementia Hwb
Unit 9, The Quadrant, Swansea (the former Thornton’s shop between Trespass and Superdrug by the bus station)
11-3pm, 7 days a week
A one-stop place for all local information to help
- people worried about their memory
- people who care about someone who may have a memory issue,
- those diagnosed with a form of Dementia,
- those who care for someone who lives with a form of Dementia.
Reading Well
Reading Well Books on Prescription for Dementia recommends books you might find helpful if you have dementia, are caring for someone with dementia or would like to find out more about the condition.
National Support Services
Wales Dementia Helpline
Supporting those living with Dementia and their Carers
The helpline offers emotional support to anyone, of any age, who is caring for someone with Dementia as well as other family members or friends.
The service will also help and support those who have been diagnosed with Dementia.
Call: 0808 808 2235
Dementia UK
Dementia UK are the specialist dementia nursing charity for the whole family. Their nurses, known as Admiral Nurses, provide free, life-changing support and advice to anyone affected by dementia.
Their website has information and support for individuals, families and professionals and can provide specialist support.
Age Cymru
Age Cymru provides confidential, impartial and expert information and advice to older people, their families, friends, carers and professionals.
If you’d like to talk to someone in Welsh or in English, you can call them on 0300 303 44 98, charged at local rate and open between 9am and 4pm Monday to Friday. You can also email them at advice@agecymru.org.uk
People with hearing loss can contact the service via the Next Generation Text service or Text Relay service. We also work in partnership with Languageline Solutions to provide access to interpreters covering more than 240 languages.
Alternatively, you may be able to find the information you need in their factsheets and information guides
Other things which might be helpful
This short video below explain what Reminiscence is.
Remarc BBC
Find selection of BBC Archives, designed to support reminiscence therapy. To help people with dementia to interact and converse in a natural way by stimulating their long-term memory with material from the past.
Music for Dementia
Music can make a difference to people living with dementia and their families. Science shoes it can help manage mood and anxiety, it can bring back memories and feelings.
BBC Music Memories
Enjoy music from the past to help people reconnect with their most powerful memories.
British Film Institute Player
BFI Player has thousands of titles from the BFI National Archive. These are now available online for you to watch for free. For more details use the link below.
M4D Radio
m4d radio is part of the Music for Dementia campaign to make music accessible for everyone living with dementia. The ambition is to make music a part of care for all those living with dementia. You can listen to M4D Radio using Alexa. For more information please click here.
THISISSAND APP
Get Thisissand app to create your own profile and access special features. Available from both Apple App Store and Google Play.
Bettersleep App
Sleep better. Feel better. A personalized sleep experience for more restful nights and wakeful days. It also helps with conditions including Tinnitus. Available from both Apple App Store and Google Play.
Daylio
It is a self-care bullet journal with goals mood diary & happiness tracker. Keep a diary and capture your day without writing down a single word! Available from both Apple App Store and Google Play.
Aqua Alert
Do you know that drinking enough aqua regularly is a very important for our health? Aqua alert app – reminds you to drink water. Available from Google Play via the link below.
Michael O’Mara Books
The digital activities page from Michael O’Mara Books. Here you’ll find a host of online colouring activities, quizzes, and downloadable extras from MOM books.
You can also see the various apps they are publishing.